Yet Another Awful Take of Feminist Influencer Sommer Tothill

MSDHONI77777778909 · 2025-06-29T18:59:42+00:00

"Patriarchy restricts men's feeling"

"Btw this is how you should invalidate his feelings"

GNSGNY · 2025-06-29T20:25:13+00:00

literally the gender equivalent of this kinda argument

Late-Hat-9144 · 2025-06-30T00:53:33+00:00

And yet, statistically speaking women perpetrate more intimate partner violence than men... maybe we should start a women vs bear discussion

Almost 24% of all relationships had some violence, and half (49.7%) of those were reciprocally violent. In nonreciprocally violent relationships, women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of the cases. Reciprocity was associated with more frequent violence among women (adjusted odds ratio [AOR]=2.3; 95% confidence interval [CI]=1.9, 2.8), but not men (AOR=1.26; 95% CI=0.9, 1.7). Regarding injury, men were more likely to inflict injury than were women (AOR=1.3; 95% CI=1.1, 1.5), and reciprocal intimate partner violence was associated with greater injury than was nonreciprocal intimate partner violence regardless of the gender of the perpetrator (AOR=4.4; 95% CI=3.6, 5.5).

- Differences in Frequency of Violence and Reported Injury Between Relationships With Reciprocal and Nonreciprocal Intimate Partner Violence

The median percentage of men who severely assaulted a partner was 5.1%, compared to a median of 7.1% for severe assaults by the women in these studies. The median percentage that the rate of severe assaults by women was of the rate of severe assaults by men is 145%, which indicates that almost half again more women than men severely attacked a partner.

- Gender symmetry and mutuality in perpetration of clinical-level partner violence: Empirical evidence and implications for prevention and treatment (a meta-analysis of over 200 studies)

kaczy87a · 2025-06-29T18:14:14+00:00

Adressing first point, I think that the man and bear debate was a ragebait , as Women seen it trough perspective ( of valid) fears of meeting a stranger in woods , and worst possible outcomes from such encounter. Where as men seen it often as dehumanizing , due to being compared to wild and giant animal , wich in turn created a dyhotomy of views and that by extension contributed to later traction between both " sides" wich contributed to the debate massive popularity. Putting it on tik tok , where a lot of time teens and even childreen reside didnt help either .As for second part , bad experiences never justify shitty behavior towards innocent people, and the " when people say all men are horrible you should do a self reflection rather than be mad " part is simply delusional .

AntiFeministLib · 2025-06-29T19:46:41+00:00

When I hear stuff like that, they're just trying to justify hating men. If she'd rather meet a bear in the woods, than a man, then would she be prepared to drive off in a car if she found one in the woods ?

Because more women die on the roads than by homicide yet I don't see any feminists refusing to travel by cars, or hating on cars. Similarly diabetes, heart disease, stroke, are massive killers of women yet I don't see women hating on chocolate bars or McDonalds. The entire 4b subreddit, a reddit dedicated to hating men, mentions mcDonalds twice. In it's entire history. Twice.

When women talk about choosing the bear, they are basically out to hate men and it's never based on any kind of reality. It's only based on an internet echo chamber which rinses and repeats "ALL MEN ARE TRASH". She is trying to justify being a sexist bigot. When she, herself, is a sexist bigot.

Pandering to her irrational fears is simply pandering to her warped view of the world. Only when she puts the feminism down, opens her eyes, looks at the data will she cringe when she sees how irrational what she is saying, actually is.

FrontCorrect5569 · 2025-06-30T02:23:40+00:00

It doesn't hurt my feelings that you fear me. I can understand that. It hurts me being lumped with the garbage men doing actual trouble out there.

ChargeProper · 2025-06-30T05:53:06+00:00

That really is a stupid take, what exactly is it men are supposed to be doing so a woman can "tell" who the good ones are and who the bad ones are?

You could ask feminist shit like this and you'll never get an actual answer or you'll get an answer to a question you didn't ask.

Nobody knows or can tell whose "safe" or not without getting to know them, men don't either unless we are good at reading people and situations, which these women don't want to do, they want to be chased with evidence, and put it on the rest of us to make their lives easier because they don't wanna learn how to read the ROOM and protect themselves.

AigisxLabrys · 2025-06-29T22:02:21+00:00

Hating men won’t make daddy come again.

generisuser037 · 2025-07-02T06:29:05+00:00

Women say stuff like this and then make fun of "nice guys" for being chivalrous and calling them gay for having manners

VanillaZilla90 · 2025-07-04T19:31:47+00:00

Stop calling these lead poisoning victims feminists. They're not, they're just appropriating that word in the hopes of making people think they're not delusional.

lumpynose · 2025-06-29T20:23:27+00:00

All this outrage over something which simply demonstrates how idiotic and foolish they can be. This is why they didn't go out alone and had chaperones and escorts back before first wave feminism, to protect them from their own foolishness.

Title	Yet Another Awful Take of Feminist Influencer Sommer Tothill
Author	meeralakshmi
Upvotes	79
Comments	15
Date	June 29, 2025 5:56 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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