How to build the most amount of rapport and comfort in the shortest time at a bar?

epimpstyle · 2025-07-05T18:16:44+00:00

Change the bar, it's not okay when you need to shout into the other person's ears.

Rhino3750ss · 2025-07-05T18:47:02+00:00

When I was single I got to the point a few years back where I was done wasting time. If I had to yell over music I all I would say was "are we getting out of here?!". Either she left with me or she didn't. Sometimes it would just be to go outside to have a smoke or talk without the noise which sometimes led to hook ups, sometimes it went straight to hookups, other times it got me confronted by the husbans😅

ratfooshi · 2025-07-05T23:54:55+00:00

2 words.

Mirror neurons.

It's the most primitive way we can enter someone's "spirit".
Rapport comes from trust. Trust comes from familiarity.

By subtly mirroring their moods, tastes, fantasies & body, you bypass the conscious mind and tap into those unconscious needs that doesn't just win their favor, but brews desire. You're like them, and people love themselves. You become familiar.

So to answer your question, practice stepping into peoples shoes. It's not the place, it's your ability to step outside of yourself and into the world of another. Good luck.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-07-06T02:47:06+00:00

I quit going to bars and clubs by around age 25 and it was for the best.

Title	How to build the most amount of rapport and comfort in the shortest time at a bar?
Author	Commissar_David
Upvotes	13
Comments	12
Date	July 5, 2025 6:01 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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