Hey everyone,

I recently started to get interested in cold approach with the main reason being that girls I met online would live too far away from me. My goal is not to get a girlfriend it's about non serious relationships or being friends if not possible (I love women)

(I am considered as very attractive and I do not really fear people's opinion on me)

This afternoon I went in the big nearby city (I live in France and its like 5th most populated city for example) for 3 hours in the goal of trying a bit but... I just ended up walking and not talking to anyone. The reason isn't really about some fears (although I do have some but I can overcome this) it's that damn, seeing a girl being alone + doesn't walk too fast + without headphones + in my age (like 16 to 20) is VERY RARE. I don't want to disturb the girl so I eliminated headphones and signs of "being busy".

Actually I think I found 4 girls that met my criteria but it was just too fast for me to prepare and go (and I also admit I should have at least gathered the courage to).

I do not have physical criteria concerning the girls but I just prefer to avoid normie girls as this is just not my type (I prefer girls having original style instead of too casual) (it eliminates half of the girls I think)

It is just crazy how hard this was to find girls to approach on the streets!

Now all of this doesn't mean I want to stop this, I think it is still a great way to meet people, but I think I need to be more precise

Some ideas I have :

  • Stop focusing on streets and go on more static places (things like malls, librairies, or whatever place)
  • Getting the courage to approach a girl walking with her friends(how to handle the friends?)

I am also quite disappointed of myself as I thought I would have had the courage lol but nothing bad I can go tomorrow with a more appropriate strategy. Today wasn't useless

Guys, what was your experience concerning all of that?

Thanks for reading all of this and I'd be glad to hear your opinions or experiences!