Do l need to ask a wüman about her body count or l find out on my own?😁

irishthunder222 · 2025-08-12T16:23:44+00:00

Why tf can't you even type woman?

fejaomcnibba · 2025-08-12T16:24:33+00:00

If you wanna find out ask her what an acceptable count is. “What’s too much for a guy for you?”. It’s a few standard deviations above or below that.

But also note we take that shit to the grave. Only other girls have heard all the stories. We even know what guy is next. You’re not going to get a direct answer ever. Or know the full details.

Pedro_Moona · 2025-08-12T16:38:53+00:00

What's up with the spelling?

IvanTheTerrible69 · 2025-08-12T20:42:49+00:00

That’s something you shouldn’t worry much about (unless you’re deathly concerned about STDs, but there are more tactful ways to approach that)

The thing you should pay attention to is whether she is actually attracted to you; if you find yourself needing to beg or grovel for her love, move on

The main concern with high body counts is “pair bonding”, but that’s just a misleading way of saying you don’t want a woman who is so desensitized she only looks at you for what she can get out of you; contrary to popular belief, if you press hard enough and true to yourself, a woman won’t be able to effectively hide the fact that she’s not into you (the disdain bleeds through their facade sharply)

As long as she is into you, focus on being present in the moment with her and be sure to communicate any issues or insecurities, such as communication with an ex, always going out without you, or anything that makes you uncomfortable; if she isn’t willing to compromise or meet you down the middle, just remember you can’t force someone to love you or share your values, and decide whether you want to keep her in your life

tl;dr: seek a fulfilling connection with a woman, regardless of everything, but stay true to yourself and your values

the_1st_inductionist · 2025-08-12T21:17:06+00:00

It depends on what your goal is. If your goal is a serious relationship with a great woman, then you don’t ask her if she was or is promiscuous unless you have some evidence for it. Otherwise you’re just being driven your insecurities.

catchthecum · 2025-08-14T04:36:24+00:00

Her behaviour matters more. I’d rather a girl who had sex with 15 guys because she enjoys sex and had connection with the guys, than a girl who slept with 5 guys because she was lonely and wanted validation.

Title	Do l need to ask a wüman about her body count or l find out on my own?😁
Author	No_Savings_9824
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Date	August 12, 2025 4:21 PM UTC (11 months ago)
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