how do i find a man who believes in traditional values?

Such-Tangerine2673 · 2025-08-19T16:16:40+00:00

You’re just very young. Focus on your self development right now so you’re ready when you do meet the right person down the line. Like another commenter said, go to a big college, especially in the south. SO many traditionally minded people I know met at my southern university and got married right after graduating. It’s a bit of a stereotype, and for good reason.

brownnbunnie · 2025-08-19T14:31:14+00:00

In my experience the guys who are more traditional are either harder to spot because they're more modest and not as showy or they grow into being more traditional as they get a little older since they are no longer influenced by their immature peers. Take your time, you're really young, it's not impossible but it's uncommon to find at your age and for now that's likely for the best.

SeriousMaintenance76 · 2025-08-19T15:01:01+00:00

You are 16, you have plenty of time to meet guys when you are older. Go to a big college in the south, plenty of men like that assuming in the USAs.

Beneficial_Menu_6510 · 2025-08-21T05:35:03+00:00

Wait till you're a little older and be in the right places. Conservative men are usually well educated and high earners, especially believing in "need to support my wife and family" stuff. You're probably gonna meet them in college, or in their mid or late 20s after a few relationships have taught them being crazy and lazy won't give them successful and happy relationships.

I think a lot of traditional value men are hermits or don't date when they're younger bc they know they don't bring a lot to the table/cant afford to date. They're too ashamed to even ask women out on a date bc they can't afford to. They have a sense of pride in needing to be providers. The type of men dating are the charismatic goof balls who don't care about needing to provide for a woman. You can still date them but ofc don't sleep with them or commit to them, date men to gain experience in communication skills, learning to compromise, be on time and such.

based-living · 2025-08-19T14:21:11+00:00

very difficult in this generation.. but i believe in the power of prayer

Hot-Tart7900 · 2025-08-19T22:09:55+00:00

You are young. Focus on being the complement to what you want and being the best you can be. You’ll be fine.

spacemangoes · 2025-08-19T14:11:36+00:00

Hm… unfortunately, it’s next to impossible but, not completely. Here is what I would do if I were you. Try moving to a country side or be in the city and join a local Christian community. Vet parents. If you see a dynamic you like between the parents and their kids(potential boy), then make a move. Or if someone approaches you and asks you on a date, you have put the butterflies in the stomach aside and asses if he’s type of guy you want. It’s way way harder than just typing it out but, keep it in the back of your head. Good luck kiddo.

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katykat277 · 2025-08-21T23:24:33+00:00

You are so young and I would like someone told me this, but Never you know who you get married so you have to be prepared for any… many people trust or have a list of qualities: I want my man/woman has this o that characteristics and maybe He/she is that but the people can change or show the true face in some situation…

Dull-Department-4218 · 2025-08-22T11:54:19+00:00

Try Christian dating apps and be clear about your goals

Ok-Guide-8750 · 2025-08-22T20:12:35+00:00

Go to east europe

WhatIsThisAccountFor · 2025-08-25T07:05:54+00:00

or they use traditional values to be edgy a holes

This doesn’t go away in adulthood.

Most men who want you to be financially dependent on them are going to expect you to earn your keep as a housewife. How that comes depends on the man, but don’t believe that you’ll be getting pampered for free. There is always a price, whether it’s sexual, or labor oriented there will always be a price.

pearlsandstilettos · 2025-08-27T21:08:17+00:00

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Title: how do i find a man who believes in traditional values?

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Full text: im not even talking about religion or whatever (tho i am christian) but just like, family and marriage and country... even little stuff like opening the car door for a girl or the guy paying for the date. im younger (16) and it seems like most people my age either dont care about tradition or values, or they use traditional values as an excuse to be edgy a-holes. i get that a lot of older people still believe in that but it feels like its becoming less common especially with younger people. idk if this makes any sense but im just wondering how you can even find a man who believes this stuff

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