I’m trying to figure out if I’m in the wrong for having my gf accompany me to drop off my daughter to college. It’s her 2nd year and me and my gf have been together for 3 years. She picks up my younger child from school when he’s with me and cooks for them when they’re with me, etc. My ex wife does not want her there as she says she doesn’t want to be uncomfortable. She has been pretty standoffish to my gf despite saying she wanted to meet her and get to know her - she has cancelled times when they were supposed to sit down and talk.

My gf also helped pack my daughter up with me after her 1st year ended and it was no issue bc my ex wife wasn’t there for that.