How to flirt?

WetBigSlap · 2025-08-22T13:32:56+00:00

Bro if there were a blueprint of flirting we would all be successful, it heavily relies on each individual.

My way of flirting is by teasing, but some girls I met would take me too literal and wouldn’t realize I was flirting. At that point I knew the chemistry just wouldn’t work with them.

Figure out how you flirt naturally, and stick to that. Keep things playful and have fun, the worst you can do is have boring surface level topics. As long as you don’t do that you’ll be good

nikibas · 2025-08-22T15:46:43+00:00

Read the Game by Neil Strauss

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2025-08-22T16:49:25+00:00

It isn't a video game.Being good in real life takes a lot of work.

It takes practice, experimentation and confidence. You just have to go on dates and talk to women and try something different then see if it works.

Flirting isn't words it's very all encompassing thing that really boils down to making people feel good but simultaneously specifically not being a people pleasing person.

Dandys3107 · 2025-08-23T16:44:11+00:00

Oh man, it's too broad of a question, and was asked probably like hundreds of time on this sub already.

Generally, treat your interaction more like fun and feeling each other's vibe instead of exchanging information and fulfilling protocol. Learn proper body language and voicetone, take a shower, wear clothes that look good on you, smell well. In terms of escalation, it's all about making it gradual and adjusting to girl's reactions. Two step forward, one step back. If you want to kiss the girl, before that you need to be in a private, comfortable, pleasurable atmosphere, stay very close to each other, look each other in the eyes, break the touch barrier significantly beforehand. Focus on that and kiss will be just one step away.

Most-Famous-Wasabi · 2025-08-25T23:40:06+00:00

Find the book 'Double Your Dating'.

It's pretty old, but it gives you a really simple mindset approach with examples.

Title	How to flirt?
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