Alright went on a couple of dates now where I thought we were vibing and having a good time but later either getting ghosted or told that it was fun but that I was too forward. During the date I was ghosted we definitely had chemistry, I had my hand on her leg for a while and she seemed fine by it but later said no to a kiss. 2nd date we were making oit a lot and again had my hand on her thigh while driving but later told me that she'd want less pda and less forwardness. I guess the question is am I escalating too much with physicality and should I make it more verbal rather than touching like I was?