Relationship anxiety

cohost3 · 2025-08-27T23:15:27+00:00

This was a wild list, I can’t lie lol.

Pros outweigh the cons in my opinion. Still, do whatever feels right.

Wife_and_Mama · 2025-08-27T23:21:16+00:00

If you know his dick is small after two weeks, but you're not even sure if you like him, you're not giving yourself enough time to process your feelings before getting physical.

Fantastic-Fudge888 · 2025-08-27T23:23:17+00:00

Your pros are the bare minimum

The cons are what you value.

Jenneapolis · 2025-08-28T14:47:02+00:00

OP what have been the results of your nun mode?

RedPillDad · 2025-08-28T13:41:32+00:00

OP's list of criteria is shockingly sparse and shallow for critiquing a potential lifetime partner.

Here's a list I would use to evaluate a new hire. I would review this list before beginning a final interview process.

Caring/Compassion – love, kindness, sensitivity.
Relational – people person / relates well to others, relationship-first.
Self-Motivated – automatically energetic, excited and engaged.
Enthusiastic – upbeat, positive and empowered.
Joy – fun, playful approach / happily achieving / adds to team happiness.
Pride – takes great pride in self and team.
Communicative – mastery of speaking, listening, shared learning - essential team skills.
Builds Trust – builds bridges, not walls.
Rapport – likeable, friendly / quick connect with people.
Customer Focus – customer-centered mindset, elegant, positive, personable and memorable
Integrity – solid character / walks the talk / maintains authenticity and transparency.
Honesty – trustworthy character / truthful→ credible→ persuasive.
Reliable – consistency / dependable / gets job done / keeps promises and commitments.
Knows Self – knows where they stand and where they want to go.
Knows Teammates – understands what makes each other tick.
Leadership – willing to lead self and others.
Followership – willingness to serve others, to serve a team, to abide by decisions.
Compatible - shares team’s vision, purpose, values / aligned and committed.
Contribution-Loyalty – team first mentality / plays win-win.
Collaborative/Synergistic – beyond cooperative, share and contribute all resources.
Focused/Intentional – purpose driven, knows what’s expected and delivers.
Responsible – ownership of choices, relationships, results / shoulders the load.
Growth – path of continuous learning / personal development / invites change.
Curious – eager to learn more - maintains a beginner’s mindset.
Coachable – willing to accept feedback and direction.

Dense-Ad6312 · 2025-08-28T02:51:16+00:00

Dating for two weeks and you already know his blowjob preferences and penis size? what the hell

Direct-Ad-5394 · 2025-08-27T23:06:56+00:00

It's tricky but you don't have to be where you don't want to. If the cons are too bad for you you could get out. No one has to obliged you to stay where you don't want to stay

MathematicianMean273 · 2025-08-28T18:40:07+00:00

I forgot to say that he also thinks spanking children is ok

AutoModerator · 2025-08-27T22:58:53+00:00

Title: Relationship anxiety

Author MathematicianMean273

Full text: Hi. Whenever I (27F) get into a new relationship I always have a gut feeling like I need to break up with him even when it’s early on and I want to make sure if I do break up with him that it’s not the wrong guy too soon. We’ve only been dating for two weeks (I’ve been dating since I was in soft nun mode) but anyway here are the pros and cons:

Pros:

He holds open the door for me
He pays for everything
He compliments me all the time
he sends me good morning and good night texts
He has nice eyes
He says he wants marriage and kids like I do
He has a job and a nice car
he doesn’t like blowjobs

Cons

he has said some questionable stuff about minorities
he has a gun and I have bipolar and I am afraid I am going to shoot myself with it (except they are in a safe and he has the password)
his dick is kind of small
I’m not really that attracted to his body
he speeds a little bit -he lives with his mom

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Lopsided-Pick47 · 2025-09-01T17:50:32+00:00

Yeah it’s gonna be a no for me 🤨

Dear_Bee_766 · 2025-10-10T17:54:19+00:00

How is having a small d*** a con? He can't change that. What if a guy says that a women having no a** or ti*s is a con. That don't make no sense to me, like uhrm.

MathematicianMean273 · 2025-08-28T18:35:48+00:00

Oh I forgot to add that he thinks spanking children is ok

Title	Relationship anxiety
Author	MathematicianMean273
Upvotes	0
Comments	20
Date	August 27, 2025 10:58 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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