How important is speed?!

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-08-30T07:08:36+00:00

I agree.

If you see the indicator of interest approach.

The longer you wait the worse it gets.

The anxiety and awkwardness builds up.

Just go for ut and make the move.

Reinstateswordduels · 2025-08-30T14:35:55+00:00

You have to strike while the iron is hot

Dandys3107 · 2025-08-30T12:18:35+00:00

It depends on the context. If you are in a situation where you will be together for longer time, you can start your play slower, getting some eye contacts and smile for a start. About missing the shot, sometimes proper circumstances or mood is just not there, but it's also very common that your play plan is incongruent with the context and you freeze because you are not prepared. I would advice to start from scratch. Think of casual interaction with a stranger girl. Talk about some pleasant and comfortable things. If you can see that she reacts overly excited or her body language gets triggered, you can convert context towards more personal and intimate vibe. It's all about practice and experience, you need to get your body language, your mindset, your voice set for anything that may happen, and that requires getting into real life situations. Just start from the beginning, simple interaction with a stranger, if you are bad at that, cold approaching will be a struggle.

FixAccomplished9993 · 2025-08-30T09:14:20+00:00

Speed is everything at every level of seduction.

I've slept with some many women are typically outside of my league but I hit them up at the moment when they are looking for someone and they were horny.

If hesitated and did not take advantage of openings, their mood would have shifted.

That's why you'll see the biggest idiots get the most women because their actions are measured in d*ck per second.

Matter_Still · 2025-08-30T15:38:32+00:00

Like most questions about women, the answer is “it depends”.

Badguy60 · 2025-08-30T17:39:48+00:00

Honestly extremely

ImpossibleWaiting · 2025-08-31T22:14:53+00:00

10 minutes? That is just hilarous. You won't stand out like that and she'll think you're a sore loser with no confidence.

You have 3 seconds to approach. The exception is if she's going to be approached by a waiter, then you approach her right after.

If the girl on the street just made eye contact and passed you, stop and call her out. Use your opener then. This is why it's important to walk slowly when doing game on the street: you can stop dead in your tracks and square up to her much easier.

Title	How important is speed?!
Author	AnteaterStreet7710
Upvotes	39
Comments	9
Date	August 30, 2025 6:59 AM UTC (11 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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