Let's say you consider yourself a guy who is a 7/10 or 8/10. Through experience, you find yourself sleeping with girls who are 7/10 or below fairly easily. You got the experience. You got the confidence. You got what it takes. Your brain tells you:

"Oh she's just another 6/10. No problem. Let's see if I bring her home tonight. If not, no worries, I'll probably meet another girl like her in a few days. If I can get the lay tonight? Great. If not, whatever."

But suddenly one night, out of sheer luck, you somehow manage to meet that 9/10. Your brain tells you:

"Oh god. She's like a 9/10. Is she more attractive than me? I've never hooked up with a girl as attractive as her before. Jeez this is a once in a lifetime opportunity. I have to not fuck this up. Ok focus. What's the next question I should ask her..."

Before you know it, there's nervousness and tension in your voice. You suddenly make a self-deprecating remark out of nowhere and laugh nervously. You tense up more. Before you know it, the girl is dropping hints to want to end the interaction.

It's over.

The reality is? Seducing ten or a hundred or even a thousand 5/10's won't help you seduce the 9/10.

Seducing a 5/10 teaches you abundance mentality - but only with 5/10's.

If you want to seduce the girl of your dreams. Sleeping with a bunch of mediocre girls won't do it. You'll need to date a bunch of very attractive girls, stumble a lot, say a lot of dumb shit, analyze the dumb shit you said, and improve your game for the next time.

Abundance mentality with hot girls cannot be built from seducing average girls, it can only be built from seducing hot girls.