I am currently abroad in Madrid and headed to one of the biggest/best clubs tomorrow. I am trying to finally get over my own internal BS and go for a girl for my last night in a foreign city while I have nothing to lose, but I am the type to psych myself out and miss opportunities because of overthinking and lack of confidence despite having plenty to logically be confident about.

Any advice on how to approach this so I can finally overcome this hurdle and make something happen? Ideally, if I can do it here, I can replicate it back home once I finally get over myself and see what I’m capable of.

One caveat is I don’t speak Spanish but most of the people here speak English so I feel like it’s not a dealbreaker, and if anything when played correctly I believe a language barrier can sometimes be played into an assistive factor and not a detriment.

All advice on inner and outer game to utilize when out and about tomorrow would be greatly appreciated.