Openers at a club?

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-09-04T15:26:19+00:00

At a club it's literally all about eye contact and sexual tension. You can't really talk much since it's so loud. Doesn't really matter what you say but I'd recommend just being direct and complimenting their beauty and introducing yourself.

Put the hook in the pond many times and see which fish bites. Don't be afraid of rejection.

the point is it's pretty much all comes down to raw physical/sexual attraction in a nightclub environment

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2025-09-04T15:00:30+00:00

Don't be lazy. This sub is full of people that just want a quick easy solution.

Be imaginative. Spend hours thinking about things to say. Work out conversations in your head to apply in every scenario. This approach while challenging will serve you in every aspect of existence.

There's no cheat code in life.

jd45577 · 2025-09-04T21:42:14+00:00

Try making eye contact and say something simple like: "you look nice, and i want to introduce myselfe." Either you let the converstaion flow natrually or walk straight away and if they have interest they will come back and try talk to you later.

Dandys3107 · 2025-09-04T15:41:52+00:00

Don't be this formal, talk to the girl like you would be good friends already. Something casual, witty, interesting, pleasurable, a bit off-scheme. Remember about proper body language and voicetone, talk slower and deeper, look her in the eyes, smile, stay a bit closer than usual, take proper posture. Specific subject of your conversation is really not that important, point is to introduce a comfortable and potent vibe and escalate gradually towards something more personal, direct, intimate. Don't forget to take a shower, have a fresh breath, use cologne, do your hair, wear some fancy and well fitting clothes. Whisper in her ear, introduce some gentle touching and adjust to her reactions. In my experience, if the girl is eager to your game and she enjoys your attractive qualities, you can get her by the wall and put your knee between her legs within minutes, just take care of small things and enjoy the process step by step.

Exotic_Cookie_4202 · 2025-09-06T03:14:21+00:00

Om, I lost my virginity to this song!!!

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-09-04T16:33:59+00:00

You will find that very often women don't want anything from you in the nightclub and when you offer to dance they will say no and look at you with dissaproval. You really cannot be prepared for the nightclub until you expereince first hand what it's like because any plan of action you have will be useless when you see the real thing and how women act in those places which ranges from coldness to absolute despise for majority of guys who want to get something from them.

AlastairXXL · 2025-09-04T14:50:06+00:00

Wanna go on the dancefloor and grind on me, only approach girl only groups

Ryan_the_Scion · 2025-09-04T15:13:11+00:00

Openers at a club?

Hi girls, how's your evening going?

Then ask if she likes to dance or something. Make it simple, and assess based on body language etc.

poly_nerdy_panda · 2025-09-04T17:16:31+00:00

DONT DANCE!! waste of time and energy take it from me I djed and was a dancing monkey for 4 years and only got a few make outs..

not saying I didn't get laid because i did online when it wasn't fashionable, but almost never got laid doing dance game.. I say almost because I built a good social circle to fuck about 4 girls from the club .. still i did that in one weekend now a days just by going in direct

Title	Openers at a club?
Author	Ruckusisbestsupport
Upvotes	7
Comments	14
Date	September 4, 2025 2:35 PM UTC (11 months ago)
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