Get ready for the confusion list.

So the thing is I had to take a step back from playing the game to regain a bit confidence. The rejections consumed me a bit too much as I was done with the confusion for a while. It worked, I fitnessed, partied, had good friends and decided Imma study again.

I wanna begin playing again. I think I didn't do a terrible job because I gained more and more unhingedness the more I tried. Outcome independence has grown and I'm okay with blue balls for the next 3 years idc. I try to go with the flow more often.

But... I wanna start taking more oppurtunities, don't care if it is a hunderd now. But I am honestly fucking confused and I think a lot of members of this group would feel the same.

The reason is, when I got rejected I asked some friends for advice, and searched around the internet for it myself.

But I seem, in every way guys, to get contradictive advice. I will list them up below but examples are: "make strong eye contact, but act like you don't care.", "Make conversations, but don't try too much, but try to get her number anyway", "don't be too pushy or needy, but approach and flirt and don't talk as if she is a friend.". "Don't answer her texts directly, that will come over as if you have nothing to do in your life, but don't wait a single second with asking her out"

Maybe some guys who are more experienced can take away the headache I'm getting from it. I'm listing a few questions and maybe you can clear it up. Notice I do daygame most of the time, I will try to find different contexts for opening but I wanna take more oppurtunities:

1) I know I should definitely open up when eye contact is strong. But what if she is looking at other things, do I leave her alone? I knew what to say today to a hot girl but she didn't look me directly in the eyes cause she was busy shopping. I feel like the hot ones always do that and have more defense mechanisms bc there options are that high. Does it mean ain't no way she is interested? 2) Do you ask to date directly the first convo or do you wait a bit and try settling a mood so she feels more comfortable? Like texting first or wait till you see her again? Had 2 opposite advices from it. 3) girls leave you waiting for text messages. Should you wait as long or not? Is there a way of getting her hooked over text? 4) A girl from my first attempts said I was too needy and pushy. Was she right? With other girls, would I try setting up a date and show interest, or have the idc-attitude instead? Idc-attitude seems to work a bit better and is advice I got from a friend who is better at pick up. Also a friend of mine befriends first and fucks later, but he is also known as a fuckboy by reputation.

Let me know what you guys think in the comments.