I don't like how Men's sexual prowess is constantly seen as okay to make fun of.

Hosai87 · 2025-09-15T19:43:52+00:00

Whats kind of funny is, feminists/women often mock the general "incel" viewpoint which usually centres around ideas from evolutionary psychology and differences in attraction between the sexes etc. This includes the idea of in the single world a small number of "top men" having more of the sex with a larger selection of females. This in part why there are many more male virgins than female virgins. This whole idea is quite poltiically incorrect however (evolutionary psychology and attraction itself is politically incorrect) and feminists will usually scoff at it and say it's nonsense. However as soon as they want to shame a man they immediately go to "incel" or "virgin" etc, i.e reinforcing the narrative that they pretend they believe doesn't exist.

The mirror insult to insult women would be the opposite insult (one which implies lots of male partners instead of none) which starts with a 'w' or 's', but is now too politically incorrect to use without having such a comment removed etc. The only just about acceptable insult for a female "loser" would prob be "cat lady" but even that may result in comment removed for "hate" in mainstream outlets.

Sick-of-you-tbh · 2025-09-15T21:07:03+00:00

Double standards.

I’ve noticed this too and think it’s completely unfair. Most guys have absolutely ZERO expectations for women in bed and yet men are held to this ridiculous standard. It used to be only the most promiscuous of women who held these expectations but because of social media and those nasty porn books most women today expect a 10 inch ripped sex expert who lasts hours and is devoted to pleasing her, frankly it’s quite gross. What this has done is left average or even above average men feeling below inadequate.

CauliflowerActual178 · 2025-09-15T21:37:53+00:00

It's misandry. Oh god how many time I had girls who where Just as sexy in bed as a brick, incapable of being a little playful or fun or worse Just empatic with my needs and wishes... Still It's allways the man to blame if things dont work in bed.

carpeCactus · 2025-09-15T21:53:18+00:00

When a feminist describes her ideal man, she will describe a slave, to her and her ever growing needs/wants/whims.

lazymud68 · 2025-09-15T19:56:17+00:00

And it's always people judging a man based on if he pleases her or not, never the other way. Sometimes it feels like the whole thing revolves around pleasing women.

A lot of men actually do care and put effort, but many women can't orgasm because they're too used to masterbation and toys. Not to mention her psychological arousal. Not everything is a man's fault.

TokiWaUgokidesu · 2025-09-15T21:04:35+00:00

I don't mind it when it's framed as "relatable" as the pitfalls of romance, but I've found it wrong to mock people for things they have no control over.

This is a broader microcosm of how women are seen as not having real agency. Men do or fail to do things, whereas women have things happen to them, or not.

rabel111 · 2025-09-15T21:40:45+00:00

Most feminists are so insecure about their sexuality, they need to demean men to prop up their fragile egos. Its hate men or be left contemplating their shallow empty lives.

PaiPais · 2025-09-15T19:35:05+00:00

Definitely unfair. Women aren’t expected to know anything about fucking good where as men will be shamed for it. But it’s important to realise lots of this comes from other men.

SupWitCorona · 2025-09-16T00:49:08+00:00

Yeah maybe there’s a double standard there. Lack of experience in women is often see as a good thing from men.

Speaking from experience of both—it can be kinda fun if she is eager to learn but there are growing pains.

I wouldn’t worry too much about it. A good empathetic woman won’t think much of it. Plus, every woman is different so what works for one might not work for another.

The important thing is to learn your woman. Or the one(s) you’re currently sleeping with.

MyLOLNameWasTaken · 2025-09-16T01:17:54+00:00

Doesn’t help if you’re in USA they’ve totally normalized routine infant genital cutting. Causing a range of issues from ed, death, desensitization, keratinization, literally stunting your development (multiple cm divergences, p 0.01 iirc), doing untold developmental psychological damage, etc.

Women do not deal with the belittling in their genital integrity movement. Mgm is only ever brought up to be stepped on by fgm opponents who’ve already won their fight here.

Nothing more perverse than handicapping men, literally physically amputating parts with use and meaning, without their say at the jump and having a culture of cock mockery and performance shaming? Real sick people out there.

Can you even imagine the gender reversal?

YoungQuixote · 2025-09-15T23:47:35+00:00

You do right to recognise such garbage and call it out.

KofteLock · 2025-09-16T12:49:50+00:00

which is funny because women will underperform most of the time too, yet it's never talked.

Acceptable_Steak1679 · 2025-09-16T12:14:36+00:00

fr bro i get it , if u say smth abt their boobs or ass they tell everyone that u told her that she has small/big boobs or ass and her frnds will bash you irl and online its just double standard. Every woman think she and her female friends are right and every other male is wrong. There is no way to fight the more u fight the more they strangle u in their lies they will turn every one against you

Fortspucking · 2025-09-16T12:46:41+00:00

This reminded me of a great National Lampoon book entitled "The Job of Sex."
https://www.iliadbooks.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/thejobofsex-scaled.jpg
I've always felt insulted by this "do me, and have a big tool" attitude. Just a grown up (or not) version of little princess.

Moist_Enthusiasm_511 · 2025-09-15T19:49:37+00:00

Women see their men like men see their employers.

Being a partner is just a role they play in exchange for security and provisioning, as a job is just a role a man plays in exchange for the same.

Women are lowkey grateful to have the position, but that won't stop them coasting, looking for a raise, shirking responsibilities, talking shit about the position when off duty, and applying for other roles.

They see their mockery as fair and harmless given the perceived power dynamic. If you let on that they're getting under your skin, they'll see you as weak and jump ship.

The trick to keeping women is to treat them more like mischievous and self-absorbed children than full adults. Never lose your frame and never show them that they can get to you.

Title	I don't like how Men's sexual prowess is constantly seen as okay to make fun of.
Author	NinjaMon1022
Upvotes	398
Comments	38
Date	September 15, 2025 7:27 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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