Should i simply move on ??

some_kind_of_friend · 2025-10-07T16:29:07+00:00

Constancy.

Match her energy. Don't put more than you get, but also don't put less into it.

If it fades it fades. If she wants to close the gap, let her.

There's no point in moving on from this unless your goal is to cock block yourself in the future.

WebNew9978 · 2025-10-07T15:16:04+00:00

Either treat her as a friend or move on. Seems clear she’s no longer interested.

BlancaNieves001 · 2025-10-07T15:17:19+00:00

Move on.

Remember, you are a valuable person, you don't have time to waste time. If she changed your mind, fine.

ivoryfaker · 2025-10-07T15:45:34+00:00

If you’re into her, try. If not, just reciprocate.

autodidacticasaurus · 2025-10-07T17:57:46+00:00

We can't know what's going on. She may be interested in someone else, she may be low energy (depressed or something), she may be testing you for neediness (sometimes girls pull back to see how you will react) or it could be something else, who knows.

You should absolutely not give her an ultimatum. That's not cool at all.

What you can do though is match her energy. Do not invest more than her ever. If she's giving you short answers, you give her short answers. If she gives you a bit more, you give her a bit more.

If you're at all interested in her, it doesn't make any sense to invest less than her either. It'll probably fade out, but maybe it won't. I've re-ignited plenty of people who were trickle-texting me at some point. Shit happens.

Another thing you can do is bring it up but in a playful way. For example, if you ask her a something and she gives you a one word answer, you can reply "Talkative today, I see. 😉" Whatever you do, don't be a butthurt asshole. This girl doesn't owe you anything and you have no idea why she's like this. Maybe her fucking grandma died, man. Joke about her silence.

So, I'd suggest joking like twice (not on the same day and not in a row), then call her out on it. Just ask her if she's doing okay or whether she's just not interested anymore. Again, don't be mad.

Fidel__CashFl0w · 2025-10-08T00:12:27+00:00

Just keep her as a friend or keep her around. Dont burn the bridge if nothing has happened yet. Just match her energy. As to why her energy has changed, it could be personal or it could be related to you or someone else entered the picture but no need to tread on that. And don’t give people an ultimatum like ever, puts them in a weird spot and usually doesn’t lead to what you want.

Small-Philosophy4565 · 2025-10-09T23:40:05+00:00

Ahh be as dry as possible and then ghost and see da magic

Remarkable_Outside67 · 2025-10-07T15:25:52+00:00

Bro, stop texting so much. She’s already shown she’s interested—no need to keep throwing “roses” over text. If you really like her, go out with her more often. Overanalyzing every message she sends is just another way to mess up your own expectations.

Title	Should i simply move on ??
Author	Cinematographero
Upvotes	11
Comments	15
Date	October 7, 2025 3:11 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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