I am planning to separate from and then divorce my wife of 8 years. We have one toddler. Reasons that I want to divorce include hurt and resentment over past events, lack of emotional support when I’ve needed it, and lack of appreciation. There is no infidelity or alcohol/drug abuse. She cooks and cleans, is a good mother, and contributes financially although I’m the bread winner. We’re not a perfect match sexually, but we don’t have a dead bedroom either. My issue comes in with figuring out custody. I work a job that requires me to leave for work around 4ish in the morning. Obviously my wife is currently home with our child during that time, but if we divorce I feel like the work schedule would automatically exclude me from doing any overnights during the week. I work in the construction industry, so it’s pretty much just what the start time looks like for me. I don’t see how 50/50 would be possible for us. Emotionally, that’s a lot of time to give up with my child and logistically I know that if we have a 60/40 or 70/30 split, it will increase my child support payments. Any suggestions?!