Need to change

ImpossibleBritches · 2025-10-20T05:27:07+00:00

Fitst off, get some distance from the your emotions around this area:

Spend three or four days (or more) in nature. Go camping solo and just chill out by a river or something.

When you come back:

Read the wiki of this sub.

Read the book Double Your Dating.

Maybe read the book Models. I haven't finished it, but its pretty good so far.

Once youve learnt the basic theory of attraction, get in-field and rack up time applying it.

Personally though, I would recommend that you dont go near learning this stuff until after youve taken a break. You need to chill out and get out of the headspace you are in.

Are their any nature walks near where you live?

Can you go hiking somewhere for at least a day?

d0x360 · 2025-10-20T12:20:20+00:00

Well first thing there is no easy ass environment. If your boys are getting hit up.. it's because they're more confident and just being more open. Talk to the ladies like they're already your friend be comfortable because any discomfort will be picked up on and it's unattractive.

Physical is not as important as people think, personality is everything

GabeWilson69 · 2025-10-20T04:57:34+00:00

I feel like it shouldn’t be hard to get laid when I want, I’m either self sabotaging or just super lame and I don’t realize it.

Accomplished-Pen7695 · 2025-10-20T06:55:28+00:00

I have a question for you @gabe

JudgeNo4298 · 2025-10-20T06:56:10+00:00

You cannot change ur looks unfortunately

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-10-20T21:46:02+00:00

You're probably approaching unrealistic targets. Need to get your reps up by going for the "easy money". Aka fatter and generally less attractive women.

Virtual_Ad_4817 · 2025-10-22T01:14:10+00:00

Idk hard to tell what you're doing wrong without seeing you do it. If you're not being shy or under-confident you're probably doing too much fake shit. Try leading with authenticity.

Title	Need to change
Author	GabeWilson69
Upvotes	2
Comments	24
Date	October 20, 2025 4:56 AM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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