As this is Reddit, I’m quasi prepared for rude and snarky remarks but I’m genuinely asking this to the lads in here. I don’t post often if at all but I am feeling curious today.

When you’re in a slow season of having low vibrational pull and seemingly no “game”, we’ve all said here in one way or another that focusing on yourself and curving your lust is the answer (while naturally still trying if you can). This always is good.

In these moments, it seems that I attract women who i don’t find “necessarily” attractive. Albeit, they are respectful, pursue, have nice and timely responses, show sexual desire etc. That alone makes them worth my attention (obsessed with respecting ones own value rn, tired of simp trained 10s garbage dating etiquette).

Does giving in to that which you feel “meh” about for the fun of it, signal to the universe “I’ll take what i get” or is it simply- hey this is what I’m having rn and that’s not my identity..

In Spanish we say “those who eat everything never starve”

Been doing it, feel ok about it etc. But i also don’t want to stunt my magnetic pull for what i obviously prefer.

Hope this made some sense.

Cheers