As per previous FR's. Been at this years. Much success, much failure. I Coach on and off.
Other than thses interactions, there were maybe 6 super fast rejections that I didn't even write about. Just fast 'no chance!!' kind of rejections after saying' 'hi' lol. (so zero physical attraction and a complete non starter)
Since my last FR I went out midweek (Wednesday) but it was just a night of solid rejection. Didn't write an FR for it
last night:
Approach 1 (Rejection – Soft Blowout, Girl With Friend)
Opened two girls standing near the wall. I went in indirect with: “Quick question — is this the quiet corner or the escape corner?” Tiny laugh from her friend, softer one from the target. Used a false time constraint. I did a personality cold read on her. asked her a couple questions .she answered but didn’t expand at all. Tried a pushpull (“You seem responsible… but I feel like you’d be chaos after midnight”). She smiled but gave nothing. Friend turned away and started talking to another guy. Target followed her lead and drifted off.
Lesson: No investment, no chance. Clean game but she was a no-girl.
Approach 2 (Rejection – Hard No, Direct Opener)
Girl alone at the bar. I opened straight: “Hey, I thought you looked interesting, I wanted to say hi.” She turned, smiled politely, and said, “Thanks, but you’re not my type.” I lightly disqualified myself (“Trust me, I’m not applying for the position”), which got a laugh, but nothing changed. Cold read + one question. Some teasting to try to build attraction. Nothing. Made my exit smoothly.
Lesson: Pure attraction mismatch. Nothing to improve. Not her type
Approach 3 (Rejection – Medium Interaction, Girl Distracted)
Saw a girl checking her phone near the DJ booth. Opened with a casual observation: “You look like you’re texting your lawyer.” She cracked up. Cold read landed well, asked her a couple questions. she answered but kept glancing back at her group. Pushpull didn’t shift things. Dropped a qualification line to try to get herself to sell to me a bit, she gave a short answer but didn’t fill in the details. Her friends called her over and she just said, “I’ll catch you later maybe,” and left.
Lesson: She was polite but mentally elsewhere. A medium-level no-girl.
Approach 4 (Rejection – Quick Blowout, Weak Indirect Opener)
Girl ordering at the bar. I opened with something less polished: “You look like you’re planning something questionable.” She raised an eyebrow, tiny smirk. I did a cold read, asked a question. super short responses. Tried a pushpull; nope. She simply turned back to the bartender without saying anything else.
Lesson: Pure blowout. Nothing game-related to fix.
Approach 5 (Rejection – Logical Conversation, No Emotional Hook)
Opened a girl standing by the railing with: “I’m taking a quick social break, who are you escaping from?” She laughed, gave a decent hook. I cold read her as the sarcastic one in her group and asked her a few questions. She responded logically but never emotionally. very flat, very surface. I tried qualification (“Okay, tell me one thing about you that’s actually interesting”) she gave something super basic and shrugged. Pushpull didn’t move her. After a minute she said, “I’m gonna get back to my friends.”
Lesson: She was slightly open socially but not attracted. Another no-girl.
Approach 6 (Rejection – Girl With a Friend, Some Investment but No Spark)
Two-girl set near the bar. I opened with: “I’m stealing her for a sec, you can apply for visitation rights later.” (playful disqualification) They both laughed. Cold read on the target, asked her a couple questions . She played along. Pushpull got a little reaction but not much. I gave her a soft qualifier (“Okay, but what’s the best thing about you?”). She answered but didn’t flip into flirty mode at all. Friend started making “we need to go” eye contact. They politely excused themselves.
Lesson: Socially open but no attraction. No-girl.
Approach 7 (Success – Number Close, Medium-Level Hook)
Girl alone by the corridor leading to the smoking area. Opened direct-ish: “You look like you’ve wandered off from your friends , is this an escape mission?” She laughed and immediately turned toward me. Cold read hit nicely. Asked her a few questions and she expanded her answers with actual detail. Pushpull got playful reactions. Used a small disqualification (“Relax, you’re not impressing me yet”), and she nudged me playfully. Energy was good but not full-on sexual. When her friend showed up to drag her outside, I went for the number and she handed it over quickly.
Lesson: Solid hook, she was open and receptive. A yes-girl but not a full pull situation.
Approach 8 (Success – Full Pull Home)
Saw a girl outside on the terrace, alone for a moment. Opened with a calm, direct line: “Quick hello, you’ve got a cool vibe and I’m curious for 30 seconds.” (false time constraint) She grinned immediately and said, “Alright, impress me.” Cold read landed perfectly, and when I asked her a couple questions, she expanded into long, animated replies. Pushpull worked beautifully. she teased me right back, kept touching my arm, and stepping closer. I gave a playful qualifier (“Okay, you might actually be fun”), and she mock-punched my shoulder. We moved inside, danced, kissed, then ended up sitting tucked away for a bit. Later, she said, “Let’s get out of here,” and we left together.
Lesson: opened the right girl. Attraction was clearly there
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