Literally anytime I’m disciplining or just trying to teach my kids a lesson my wife interjects and tells me I’m being an asshole. I don’t think I’m being an asshole and I feel like I’m losing all respect of my kids and any ability to get my message across. It’s also funny bc she frequently loses her shit in the kids herself. I lost my cool today and called her a cunt, I don’t feel bad honestly, but I need a way to stop this behavior.

I wasn’t sure if this would be deemed a shit test? My thought going forward was to maybe just leave the house for a few hours and go to the gym or work. Or do I just ignore it?