Short back story, STBXW said she is done in November and gave me to have all bills over to my name by January 15. We have an autistic son and she said he is better with his Dad so you can have him, real Mom of the year here. So January 15 came and I had my ducks in a row, she still wants out of the marriage but has no exit plan. She wanted to live together and co-parent. I have been in counseling since mid November with expectation of her moving on with her life. She also asked me to go on vacation with her family later this year, like that was thought process. So we are living together now, trying to be friendly and have our house under contract and closes on 3/12. Then my son and I are getting our own place.

So on to the success. Today it really showed I have let her go, she was on her phone texting while eating dinner ( I do all the cooking btw) and I later noticed it didn’t hit me as how she was texting (due to past affair has caused some trust issues). I will take any win right now I can have.

So now my question, once separated in the living aspect of divorce, what is best advice besides counseling?

Appreciate all advice and info.