Though at 17 I went to 2nd base with someone (naked and kissing each other but never went to penetration).

My city is famous in India for it's hookup culture. Just search "Pune hookup culture" on reddit or anywhere and you'll find crazy things about this city. Yet...I am a 24yo virgin.

I get stares and glances from women in public places (malls, cafes etc.) been told I have a good face card by tons of people. Some of my friends when we first met even assumed that I must have a girlfriend or fwb going on.

Here I am. Nothing at all. I had 3 exes though. But one was a school crush at 16, 2nd at 17 and last at 21 after which I stopped dating as last one was basically a satan. And I was also depressed by last one due to all things coming back to me.1st gf asked me out. 2nd and 3rd exes were actually family friends and they approached me indirectly. I never had to approach anyone at all.

Anyways. Now that I want to date after working on myself and healing a lot. There's nothing out there working for me. Height is decent 5'8" for Indian standards though not 6ft. I was 5'9.5" (5 feet 9.5inches or 5'10" max though, had an accident and minor muscle tear caused my back to stay in a place. I still have back pain and postural issues because of this, but I don't care about height it's decent already). But I look like I come from well off background, classy (due to fashion upgrade I made) and I know some of my 6'1" 6'2" friends asked me for fashion or lifestyle tips on how to look good and not streetside homeless guy.

Reason I am talking on looks and I know I am good looking now is because I was ugly as a teenager so I know how we are treated based on looks. Girls straight up rolled their eyes or brother zoned me. Even if someone teased them by my name or teased me by their names.

So now. I have decent looks. Even my ex friend who always hated me and rolled her eyes on me. Told me (a few weeks ago before falling out) that I am looking good and handsome now.

Still I don't come off as braggy about my looks. I still believe I Iooked -2 (-ve 2) back then and now I look 5/10 now.

Idk man. Dating apps don't work for me. And when I send DM to girls who gave me their instagram id themselves or sent me requests themselves after searching my id (not even giving it to them) they straight up ghost me when I DM them.

There's some black magic fuckery going on here.