Once the decision was made by her, how did it affect your side of the family? We would always drop our kids (11,8,7) off at my mother’s for grandma time and a break. Now she never does that even though she drives right by her house when she has custody. So of course more added pressure for me to make sure they get the grandma, aunt and uncle time. Is it true when they divorce you, they divorce your family? my mother adores the kids. This shit sucks. Thanks gents