My wife and I are going through a mediator trying for a dissolution to save money. The mediator sent us each out a questionnaire to be filled out and emailed back in individually. One of the questions was about a history of emotional, financial, or physical abuse or coercive control in our marriage. There has been, I've been on the receiving end, and I told the truth. I laid it out and gave examples. Now I'm worried I should have just kept my mouth shut and went about my business. Does anyone here have any experience with this? Did I throw a wrench into things? What possible good or bad could come from this?