Not able bring girl to my place? Is that a disadvantage?

richtofen_1 · 2026-02-18T00:17:17+00:00

Let’s say you go on a date, and things go well. Now, you want to take her home, but you can’t. It’s way easier to invite a girl to your place than to invite yourself to their place.

Low_Map_962 · 2026-02-18T00:31:03+00:00

I lived with my parents for a few years after my divorce. I dated girls but I could never bring them to my parents for obvious reasons..

However this was never an issue with all girls that I dated at the time. I would just go to a nice hotel/motel to spend the night with my new girlfriend and that would be fine.. the issues would come later in the relationship when we wanted to spend more Netflix time together.

It’s always better to have a place you can bring your ladies

Good-Concentrate-260 · 2026-02-18T03:34:33+00:00

I don’t understand why you can’t have guests if you have your own room

poly_nerdy_panda · 2026-02-18T14:22:44+00:00

if you are paying rent see if it's in your agreement to bring people over. If not fuck the landlord! You can do whatever the fuck you want within the Agreement.

If your not stuck on your lease time to get a new place, in the meantime, just ask a girl if she has a roommate on the date, but casually, most of the time she will mention it ..

I fucked plenty of times in my car but highly against it l because if your area is full of cops its eaiser to get caught.. Here in LA so many homeless camps so its pretty easy to find a spot so your mileage may vary

The easiest way to fuck in your car is just sit in the backseat bring booze lick tits and makeout lick pussy and fuck! oh yeah, roll down a window a bit so it doesnt get all foggy...

pro tip: once you fuck and are close to cumming, you can stop and just suggest a hotel so you can recover and go again.. cum and go again and again if you're younger lol

Disastrous_Affect742 · 2026-02-18T01:03:39+00:00

Definitely dude , get an apartment it'll boost your confidence up too when your on a night out

Sister-Brother-Lover · 2026-02-18T06:17:23+00:00

Wait until your parents are out and try sneaking her in the back door.

achyut2897 · 2026-02-18T00:28:11+00:00

In that case, you guys can go to a hotel to hang out or just simply try to talk to her and explain her this situation. If she's really into you she'd agree to go with you even at her place as well.

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-02-18T00:51:38+00:00

You probably are missing opportunities, but you also got to get the girl there. Trust me just because you are vibing well with a girl does not mean she is likely to go home with you. I've made out iwth girls and at night's end they are just like "ok this was fun, bye".

I get this is a hurdle bu tdont det in the mindset of the reason you arent taking women home with you is because of your landlord. Again it's a legit excuse, but it's still an excuse. I say this because one day this wont be a thing and it's very easy to find another excuse.

Just because it's a hurdle does not mean it needs to be a mental hurdle when talking to women for you.

Enjoy the moment, have fun with women. Focus on how to flirt and how to entertain women for a night out tha tyou just met. Use this time as practice to get women to be attracted to you becuase with that mindeset it's very easy to not try at all or give up because "whtat's the point if i cant take her home?" It's better to learn and make the mistakes now then wait and then tomorrow you live in your own apartment but are striking out.

if there's a will there's a way. Id say if you make decent money, find a decent priced hotel near the places you frequent and offer to get a hotel you guys can hangout at.

Fdc1210 · 2026-02-18T04:21:12+00:00

If she wants to fuck, then she wants to fuck, end of story. Place becomes less relevant at that point. You will still get laid if the vibes, universe, and timing align

LilySeraph · 2026-02-18T01:42:36+00:00

Honestly, not really. If the vibe is there, it’ll work itself out...your place isn’t the dealbreaker. You can always figure something out later, what matters more is the connection

Title	Not able bring girl to my place? Is that a disadvantage?
Author	Saqib_Rehman
Upvotes	9
Comments	18
Date	February 18, 2026 12:08 AM UTC (5 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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