Hey y’all, I recently came to a conclusion that I’m not really liked as a person but more so of the idea of me. I consider myself attracted and I get along with women, flirt, and breaking the touch barrier but when I escalate going to places like hanging out, I get shut down just for someone deemed objectify “unattractive” to win them. I feel bad because I think the idea of me being in someone’s life is kinda not in the picture now.