A bit of background. Not really been getting on the last few months. Mainly me, fearing of losing her, crippling anxiety, not wanting to do anything because I might upset her.

To be fair, she was always like "go out, see your friends", "there's a poker league up the road", "join this running club". I just didn't want to do anything.

Split up just after the new year. Even on Monday, we talked about divorce.

I've since been following stoic principles and acting cool and calm. Tried to stay distant, just to not gave conflict.

But things have started to change a bit. She texts me asking if I got to work OK. Why if we are separated? I come home and she has cooked tea for me.

I went out after tea, to a running club, text her to stay I would be going out straight after and there are homemade cookies when I get back and offers me two.

She's just started being nice to me all of a sudden. What the hell is going on when last week I was a tosser for "financial abuse" because I wanted 50.50 in divorce.