I finally understand why so many married guys are unhappy

Familiar-Cobbler4567 · 2026-04-02T20:01:08+00:00

When you hit rock bottom or become useless to her you will see how fast she will replace you it's sad.

SirHumpalott · 2026-04-02T22:18:27+00:00

Having been in LTRs for most of my adult life, I've never been happier since deciding to become and stay single. The juice ain't worth the squeeze.

lazymud68 · 2026-04-02T18:38:37+00:00

A lot of marriages aren't loving and effort from both sides. I've seen so many men who adore their wives be treated like utility and just benefit to her. They are just tolerated and he ends up in this situation where he is scared of her leaving, so he takes the blame and puts his needs and wants aside and does more and more for her just to like him FOR he does for HER.

SidewaysGiraffe · 2026-04-02T18:38:36+00:00

So... no information about what the video is actually about, just single-sentence comments on what it made you think about what other people said?

This is the epitome of low-effort posting, dude.

BillEmpty3960 · 2026-04-02T18:03:48+00:00

Where's the link?

Remarkable-Front-551 · 2026-04-02T20:52:26+00:00

Commenting so I can find this again after work ..

Fleischhauf · 2026-04-02T21:11:20+00:00

sounds and looks like ai generated.

WearyConfidence1244 · 2026-04-02T22:00:39+00:00

I get it, but this is in no way anything like me or my relationship. I don't believe in excuses for women. I do agree that women are automatically seen as more trustworthy and kinder, which is not true. That's not right. But my case it's the exact opposite of this. I'm not a good example, though, because we both kind of don't fit traditional gender roles. I'm a woman and my partner is a man.

Men having boundaries would stop much of what this video is saying is 'an epidemic'. If she overspends on the credit card, cut it off. It's not that hard not to get taken advantage of. You'll be able to tell by her reaction the first time if she's worthy or not. If I'm a dude, after two or three times of my wife or girlfriend not listening to me when I'm attempting to have a serious conversation about something imortant in our lives, I'm filing for divorce. Or breaking up. Hopefully this would be apparent before marriage.

JazzFan1998 · 2026-04-02T18:58:41+00:00

Thanks, I will watch it soon.

Any-Buy9829 · 2026-04-02T22:07:44+00:00

I love my wife. I consider her my best friend, and we have a good relationship. She hates that I picked up a weed habit- not much, just a little bit each night (shout out dynavap). It became habitual when I realized that no matter what I said or did, she would not have sex. So I figured, fuck it, if nothing I do will lead to sex, why keep trying at all?

pavelshum · 2026-04-07T04:19:56+00:00

I'm not unhappily married, but I'm married to a man, so it's much easier.

erikmyxter · 2026-04-02T18:24:31+00:00

I think any relationship "guide" that focuses on relationships as being adversarial is the baseline reasoning as to why those men are not happy in their marriage.

ShabbyJerking · 2026-04-03T01:33:29+00:00

Dumb vid. You expect perpetrators to own up? You're just mocking the victims. The real answer is to actually get angry, and show it, and then blame the perpetrator for it. Sometimes there is no other solution other than a fight. Especially when it's not up to you whether the fight should happen. Relinquish control that way, because you have none.

Title	I finally understand why so many married guys are unhappy
Author	No_Square530
Upvotes	246
Comments	49
Date	April 2, 2026 5:59 PM UTC (3 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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