What is your experience with 'low' chatters that dont want to chat first, but request a meeting for a drink first? meeting on dating apps

ChicoBrillo · 2026-04-09T03:25:57+00:00

idk im the same way. If we're both interested we minds well just meet up and see if there's chemistry

Unlikely_Impact1451 · 2026-04-09T08:04:58+00:00

I’m one of them. Found lots of amazing people on dating apps all over the world. I just don’t have the time for endless in-app chats and prefer to meet face to face. If we match, my second message would be let’s have a coffee/tea/drink.

You either have enough confidence to have a face to face chat, or you’re not my type. It’s that’s simple. No point wasting endless hours on an online app since we’ll need to meet eventually anyway!

MineDesperate2920 · 2026-04-09T03:26:14+00:00

If u find them attractive it’s great. Easy date. Go

Miss_Galoldriel · 2026-04-09T05:21:35+00:00

It could also just speak of a person who doesn't want to waste their time chatting when a date can show whether or not there's potential.

Western-Month-3877 · 2026-04-09T11:34:46+00:00

Don’t you have it backwards? If people wanna meet for a drink, why would that mean they hide their personality or body issues? By meeting up they will reveal themselves. The quicker you meet up the better. No bs-ing around online chatting for days or weeks.

S-Tier_Commenter · 2026-04-10T06:24:23+00:00

Communicating trough text is the least efficient way in getting a feel for someone’s personality. So your argument isn’t it.

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