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Like you've to go to gym, read books, improve personality and ONLY then you get to date women.

Yeah do all those because you should be doing them to improve life in general.

But dating is a form of social connection by itself. You can do all these while still learning about the other person during dating. Hell you can do it along with them.

Don't think you don't deserve love the way you are. That's probably the biggest thing holding you back.

Self worth is very very important for dating and try keeping it as independent from life circumstances as possible.

Good luck ❤️