I think not many people look at the fact that no matter which mainstream ideology you look at it's pretty muh always set up against men's basic needs and human dignity.

The typical "progressive" ideologies paint men as inherrently "priviliged" and will therefore portray granting women anything they ask for as necessary to "undo damage caused by milenia of systemic oppression" even though when you look at actual history, in most societies men have always took care of women and put a lot into ensuring that women were safe, taken care of and happy. However since progresive ideologies will always only consider their cherry picked revisionist history where they'll only look at things such a women not being alowed to vote or own property without looking at all the advantages they had instead, they will never actually do anything to help solve mens' issues.

The typical "traditional" ideologies will, again, just put those same roles and responsibilities onto men and won't care about our issues and will still predominatelly care about women being safe and happy.

You can see this with things like Military conscription, where most progressive outlets and figurs talk about how it's "unfair" to expand it to women too because women are supposedly "overburdened" because of housework (even though they completelly ignore all of the tasks that are only expected of men) and the more conservative outlets and figures will just say that men are supposed to protect women and so expanding conscription to women should never happen.

So progressive ideology still tells men that they have to adhere to their traditional roles because supposedly "women were oppressed for milenia and now men must be forced to still do their roles to compensate women" (which as I already talked about is based on revisionist history) and the more traditional ideologies will still want to force men into their roles and maybe sometimes also expect women to do theirs but you don't really have any mainstream estabilished ideology that would actually seek to uplift men and solve everyone's issues.

The fact that we have barely anyone to represent us is honestly completelly devastating. Men are pretty much the only group that doesn't have any meaningful representation in the mainstream.