34m someone teach me how to not be a total dork to women.

PlayaNoir · 2026-05-12T18:46:36+00:00

My suggestion to you is to work on your fitness and cultivate some hobbies. You need time to yourself after serving time in the marriage institution.

tattooedpanhead · 2026-05-12T21:40:35+00:00

Own that dorkyness it will make them see you as being cute. And owning it also shows them that you're comfortable with yourself.

Don't give a damn what they think. Cultivate a healthy level of indifference. So you can be yourself un-apologeticly. This way if you embarrass yourself? You can push through it, like it never happened.

Be yourself un-apologeticly. Joke around have fun and don't worry about what people think. You don't need to impress anyone. They need to impress you. So just have fun.

Use false time constants. So you can leave early, while it's still fun. Creates scarcity and prevents you from overstaying your awkwardness.

Brief-Photograph6943 · 2026-05-12T19:13:01+00:00

Be casual don’t treat them like a thing to be nervous about. Treat them casually same as you would someone normal like a normal human they like that.

Toatkgstuff · 2026-05-12T19:33:47+00:00

Ground yourself in things you are knowledgable and confident about. Get used to asking questions and listening to answers.
Pace yourself, do not rush conversations. Take your time and feel easy in your own space.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-05-12T19:53:08+00:00

What is it that makes you "dorky to women" in your view? Would love to get some more info before I give any advice

wilhelmtherealm · 2026-05-12T19:06:35+00:00

Talking to more attractive women can teach you far more than anyone else here.

CibrecaNA · 2026-05-13T00:54:10+00:00

DM me.

Elegant-Wolf-12 · 2026-05-13T01:19:10+00:00

Get ok with yourself, grounded and basically happy. Make some women friends, just as friends (though a little flirtation Is fun)

Title	34m someone teach me how to not be a total dork to women.
Author	chuckrock922
Upvotes	14
Comments	23
Date	May 12, 2026 6:43 PM UTC (2 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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