I can’t find the partners that I want

Western-Month-3877 · 2026-05-26T21:16:58+00:00

It is difficult.

Let’s say you’re looking for decent looking ones (at least 7s or 8s), and let’s say average looking people are roughly 50% of the total population (average is the keyword). So if you look for a 7 or 8 alone without additional requirements or traits (I mean; hot only, without being a swinger), that % would probably be only 30-40%. And out of that group, how many of them are also swingers? Maybe like 10-20%, and I assume that’s a very generous percentage. I wouldn’t be surprised if the actual number is only 1-2%.

This is why I understand swingers often complain that most swingers they’ve found are ugly, even when they had participated in some “swinger” cruises. I heard that from a couple of people I know. I even jokingly told them “see, maybe you being in that group is not helping either.” Later they told me there are some swinger groups but they are very private/exclusive. You can’t just join them based on “hey let me in! I’m a swinger too.”

But seriously tho. Imagine you’re a very attractive girl and a swinger too. Do you think you would announce it to the world like on online swinger groups that you’re looking? Of course not. They’d be extra picky and sort people out carefully.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-05-26T19:12:36+00:00

You can either make yourself a more attractive option and become a better texter, or you can lower your standards. Or both.

You can also move to greener pastures.

TBearYCF · 2026-05-27T00:06:03+00:00

Try Feeld or go to Secrets in Kissimmee and get up a chat w other swingers.

Title	I can’t find the partners that I want
Author	IslandMan01
Upvotes	0
Comments	19
Date	May 26, 2026 7:08 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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