My BF wants to introduce toys into our sex life?

seduction-ModTeam · 2026-05-29T14:15:14+00:00

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Unlikely-Value-5114 · 2026-05-29T10:23:47+00:00

Why not both?

Being penetrated with a toy while you’re kicked is great

Having a vibe on your clit while fucked is great.

Why not at least give it a try.

We see many posts here that some men are intimidated when their partner wants to use a toy. It’s great that your BF wants to maximize your pleasure.

THUMB5UP · 2026-05-29T10:41:15+00:00

Let me ask: why are you opposed to them?

My wife and I use them. Why would I NOT want her to feel completely satisfied? Fuck an ego, let’s be some squirrels and chase dem nuts

Swagggyysingh · 2026-05-29T10:29:31+00:00

It’s ur sex life so ultimately it’s whatever makes you most comfortable or pleasurable. IMO I think it’s good to use it once in a while just for something new, but I don’t use it often with my partner. Idk, just depends case to case. Try it out and see how it goes

Brahms12 · 2026-05-29T10:30:09+00:00

Don't put any parameters on it. There's no rule or law that says it has to be only one way. Have fun. Enjoy yourself. Try new things and see if you like it.

Foreverseeking47 · 2026-05-29T10:41:53+00:00

MODS you need to ban that user.

basafo · 2026-05-29T11:11:21+00:00

Look at their posts mods, OP is posting unrelated crap everywhere in Reddit.

Biscuitsbrxh · 2026-05-29T10:28:44+00:00

Me and my girl really enjoy using toys in the bedroom. It’s also great if I finish a bit early and my girl still wants more. Nothing worse than a prude imo

alifteronreddit · 2026-05-29T10:51:46+00:00

A good chunk of sex therapists advise against it

basafo · 2026-05-29T11:09:42+00:00

This topic is unrelated here. You should look for another subreddit. Maybe OP is just farming, I don't know.

cococo911 · 2026-05-29T11:12:37+00:00

Do it! Makes it so fun!

8ruce_4lmighty · 2026-05-29T11:48:59+00:00

Dude, toys are fun even in threesomes 🌿

PrettyBlueEyes · 2026-05-29T12:02:03+00:00

Why not give it a try? You have nothing to lose and a lot to gain.

ControlGood8979 · 2026-05-29T10:44:28+00:00

Wrong sub

Title	My BF wants to introduce toys into our sex life?
Author	SilkyNightingales
Upvotes	0
Comments	23
Date	May 29, 2026 10:19 AM UTC (1 month ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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