Her meningioma has some degree of effect on her behavior and cog fog for sure. She has a tiny social battery that work takes most of, so our daughter (10) and I get the leftovers.

We “celebrate” 20 years of marriage this month. This is the 4th time in 9 months she’s brought up divorce, although it’s been 6 months since last time.

She hasn’t been in therapy “doesn’t need it, not getting anything out of it” for 5 months. I was going weekly but missed the past few weeks with a job change and end of school chaos.

She now wants to see the couples counselor we saw twice back in October.

Today she told me she “doesn’t want to talk to me for a week”. I said ok. An hour later while alone at our daughter’s gymnastics team BBQ she texts me, then again just before bed (she sleeps in another room because of apnea and meningioma stuff).

I’m not sure I see much of a path forward, but am absolutely terrified of the financial pain (Colorado - 50/50).

I love my daughter to pieces and I do everything for her (to/from school, gymnastics, camps, dr apts, etc). I hate this.