First date on my birthday?

BustingFeelsGreat · 2026-06-17T16:01:31+00:00

If it comes up on the first date, just casually laugh it off, saying you totally forgot that it was your birthday when we made plans and you didn’t want to reschedule and seem like a flake. You could make post birthday plans and invite her for a second date, assuming you could get something together a fees days later.

siouxszie · 2026-06-17T15:52:34+00:00

just owned it , i did this before and we went home together that night , end up dating this girl who now becomes one of my closest friend (broke up because i moved out of the country for work)

pottttatttto · 2026-06-17T15:50:18+00:00

Just don’t bring it. Maybe on 2nd or 3rd mention it I guess

Western-Month-3877 · 2026-06-17T16:13:56+00:00

I personally believe if you reach certain age (maybe mid 20’s or early 30’s), birthdays don’t mean much anymore. Idk about you, OP.

If you feel like you wanna do something else on your birthday like with your friends or family members, I think that’d be a much better option than going out with someone new.

But if you cancelled the date and stayed at home by yourself and feeling miserable the optics ain’t good at all, I think that’s the worst option. Even going out with her would be a slightly better option. If she asks or if you bring it up, just say you never see your birthday as a big deal. Just treat it like any other day. Bonus point if she gives you a bday present. If not that’s fine too.

Thin_Cabinet_2481 · 2026-06-17T16:24:22+00:00

Go on the date and casually mention it is your birthday when you meet because it makes a fun icebreaker and she will likely find it charming. dont overthink

ANewCleanSlate · 2026-06-17T18:32:20+00:00

Tell her and reschedule. It will be a red flag that you don't have other things to do.

Certain_Process_7657 · 2026-06-17T16:33:42+00:00

Personally I wouldn't do it. Especially if I haven't met her in person yet. Most online dates are underwhelming (fatter) than their photos.

You're going to be too much in your head about making it feel special since it's your birthday rather than just treating it like any normal date. You'll put too much pressure on yourself.

This is assuming you're relatively novice in terms of game/dating experience.

bisaku69 · 2026-06-17T22:40:01+00:00

Do it bro, I did it with a girl back when I was 22 and while she was initially a little freaked out as to why I'm spending it with her (all my friends were working and it was during the week), we ended up having a really nice time. she was a keeper, unfortunately things didnt work : (

Quiet_Rock_5696 · 2026-06-18T14:55:12+00:00

There’s no need to hide stuff from your date you’re 33. Mention it’s your birthday during the date and don’t make a big deal about it, she’ll probably be happy and feel special that you chose to spend it with her

newme19283 · 2026-06-17T15:49:59+00:00

She will think you’re a loser if you’re spending your birthday with a random h03

vertascend · 2026-06-17T19:40:51+00:00

Tell her you didn’t realize that it was your birthday; and you didn’t want to make it wierd; let her decide if she wants to postpone it or keep it on the same day

Title	First date on my birthday?
Author	bulge_master
Upvotes	6
Comments	13
Date	June 17, 2026 3:34 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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