im kind of nervous to post this because it's a bit heavy and personal to myself and my LDR bf. I'm hoping most people will come here with good faith arguments or discussions since it is a sensitive topic. I've always wanted to post about this so I'm very curious as to what's going to unfold in this comment section..

if you're someone out there who is very strong on "biology" and "men's nature" believe that a possible explanation for the "outliers": who do not watch corn, dont find many people attractive, just have eyes for their partner, are off put or uncomfortable by sexual jokes and talks (except from their partner) have been sexually traumatized in some way as kids or teens?

I know that sexual trauma can cause people to become hyper or hyposexual, and I've noticed a pattern where traumatized people show those signs or traits above and therefore feel like they don't have a voice in the pill talks, and that they are not believed because of "biology"

sexual trauma whether it's online grooming, coming across graphic corn at a young age, or being assaulted IRL can have detrimental effects that a lot of people who haven't been, truly don't understand.

obviously not every person with these traits has trauma, but I'm curious whether you think trauma might account for some of the exceptions.