Why are some women so quick to judge a guy for having an opinion?

mrkpxx · 2026-06-22T11:54:59+00:00

They are afraid to confront you.

mrmensplights · 2026-06-22T14:20:44+00:00

Your making a mistake here. To people like this words are just weapons. She isn't arguing in good faith. See how she has you on the back foot defending yourself by making baseless accusations? You're falling into a trap. Dude she even said "Trash like you" why are you taking her points seriously and defending each one in her eyes?

Listen: This is the internet. You don't need to convince her, you just need to convince the audience. Stop being reactive; She is shooting arrows and you moving to ensure you get hit. You'll never convince her: Those who are caught up in hate can never be convinced by more evidence. That isn't how hate works. Don't subordinate your response by addressing her rhetorical barbs point by point, instead call out the behavior and spend the rest of the time moving your own argument forward.

Think of it like a play where you're three quarters turned towards the audience as you respond to her. You need to convince the audience she's being unreasonable and educate the audience on the facts. Some part of the audience is open minded. In this context she is just a prop you should be using to accomplish that.

critical_Bat · 2026-06-22T15:05:20+00:00

The first thing you have to understand is terms like harassment, misogyny, sexism, sexual assault and rape are meaningless in discussions lile these.

After decades of hearing everything is gendered it is “literal” rape for them to accept there may be greater parity in some victimization statistics.

The sooner all feminist ngos are defunded the better.

TheDankLord4416 · 2026-06-22T07:57:37+00:00

Women lack maturity

Appropriate-Major649 · 2026-06-22T23:08:41+00:00

The feminist endgame is a world where women do what they want and men do as they are told. They will tell you what to do, think and say.

10YB · 2026-06-22T18:03:17+00:00

Man, it’s honestly heartbreaking how messed up things can get,i wish things were different

elebrin · 2026-06-22T13:06:36+00:00

They want you to have the opinion they think you have, rather than the one you actually hold.

Women think we are simple, thoughtless creatures. They don't understand that we think and consider and synthesize our own ideas. They think we should just take the opinions we are given and absorb them and that's that. The second we naturally create our own ideas and opinions inside our own minds rather than just regurgitate what the women said, they don't like it much.

If you don't believe me, by the way, how many times have you been told "you didn't listen to me" by a woman? See, they think that to listen is to agree. That you listen, and then instantly know they are right the same way THEY know they are right, instantly recognize that, then change your entire mind.

Why do adult women think this way? Because of bad men and bad lovers. The easiest way to not have an argument with a woman is to just... agree verbally with whatever she says. With a lot of women it's nonsense anyways, or at the very least it's of no consequence if you aren't planning a long term relationship. What she thinks you think doesn't matter all that much to guys who are just trying to get it in. Younger women learn this from the adult women, basically by aping behavior (women aren't unique here, young men do this too of course).

Like, say you look at a nice painting that depicts a bunch of black men working, such as one of my favorite murals, the Diego Rivera "Detroit Industry" murals at the DIA. Amazing stuff, an absolute tribute to working men, union men, and black men. The sort of building activity that is both done ethically (this was during the era of strong unions) and is constructive to society. Anyways, women will look at that painting and the first thing they will notice is the lack of women, and of course they will comment on how it's just chauvinist sexism. If you say, "Yes dear, of course it is" and go on about your date then get laid later, you did what you had to do. If you say, "Well, there were women working in the factory but they weren't generally allowed to take that kind of job, you have to understand the time and place to understand what's going on here" you are going to get a glare from many women.

It's the difference between my wife and my sister. My wife gets it. She understands why that painting is important to me, and why I like it. It speaks to me in a specific way that I've explained, and she appreciates it for what it is as well. My sister thinks I am being sexist, and I don't even try to explain to her. If I did, that'd be that earlier situation where I'm not just taking the "correct" opinion from someone who considers themselves my better, and regurgitating it. She gets a simple, "Well, OK" and I don't explain what I think to her, because it doesn't matter.

ChromaticRift · 2026-06-23T02:30:51+00:00

She’s what some people might called unhinged… and I’d be one of those people.

skelectrician · 2026-06-23T07:40:43+00:00

Not every unhinged rant on the Internet deserves a response.

Impossible-Age-3302 · 2026-06-23T00:14:21+00:00

Control

Gleichstellung4084 · 2026-06-24T09:32:51+00:00

you forgot "different" before "opinion" in the title.

MaxAcds · 2026-06-22T15:20:05+00:00

I think it’s a defensive reaction after clashing serval times with bad guys then every question feels like an attack. I had a few curious times when i encountered massive backlash and i didn’t even know what i did wrong, i was just asking questions i was saying to myself, but man i was feeling like a worst piece of shit thinking maybe i am really a horrible being. Doing bad things and don’t understanding you are doing bad things is like the biggest fear of mine.

themidnightgreen4649 · 2026-06-28T16:05:29+00:00

It is bots or trolls designed to fuck with your brain. If you meet people like this irl, they tend to self-separate very quickly

Title	Why are some women so quick to judge a guy for having an opinion?
Author	aliahmadisld
Upvotes	380
Comments	30
Date	June 22, 2026 6:24 AM UTC (4 weeks ago)
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