“we need to have better communication”

Aubrey_D_Graham · 2021-03-01T16:51:15+00:00

Womanese translated: We means you. You need to tell where you are, what you are doing, who you are doing it with.

i-am-the-prize · 2021-03-01T17:24:10+00:00

translations:

"I want to have an easier time controlling you"

"I want you to simp and need me more"

"I don't like not knowing everything so i can more easily reject you"

no, /u/Smerdakas if she wanted something specific, constructively addressed, she needs to actually mention it (budget, travel, logistics). when a woman makes a blanket statement like this, it's a BS test to see how high you'll jump / or just a complaint.

but ignore what they say, and watch what they do.

my LTR used to complain about my time at the gym, but won't stop touching me; my LTR complains about my more OI nature the last few years, yet we argue not at all anymore, and we're both happier than ever (my view, and separately her admission on multiple occaisions) yet if i were to have listened to her blanket demands (less time in gym, more with her; more 'emotional talk' vs. ngaf/oi and my Frame or the highway) we'd be worse off, and I'd be worse off.

lilgreg1 · 2021-03-01T16:19:19+00:00

If you're not going to give in, then why do you care? Regardless, better to communicate less with a woman rather than more, so well done. Let her chase you and let your uglies communicate what needs to be said.

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Mobrowncheeks · 2021-03-01T18:27:22+00:00

She just wants to know more about the way you think about things so that she can better navigate getting the things she wants out of dealing with you. It’s best to be either generic af or not say anything so that your always ahead of her

Smerdakas · 2021-03-01T16:30:35+00:00

I think that the fact that she wants to address a problem in your relationship means that she wants to continue with you. If you want to continue with her too, I'd say take advantage of her hint and have a little chat about it.

Title	“we need to have better communication”
Author	saucy_pilot
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	March 1, 2021 4:11 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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