Excessive Beta Orbiters

itiswr1tten · 2021-03-18T16:36:23+00:00

Congrats, you're dating a girl who isn't a swamp creature. That's just how it is. If she's engaging with them and flirting, sure demote. But pure inbound? That's just life

themostgianthorse · 2021-03-18T16:17:56+00:00

It’s not about what she’s receiving, it’s whether she’s replying.

cunningcaring · 2021-03-18T17:04:30+00:00

She has abundance. Do you?

Sufficient_Memory_82 · 2021-03-18T16:50:24+00:00

Looks like she is invested to you . What's your problem exactly?

a6rp · 2021-03-18T17:35:30+00:00

It's normal now. My friend had HB9 with pretty profile pic on facebook and amount of RANDOMS (not even mutual friends) messaging her about how hot is she and how much they want to go out with her was absurd. This was like 5~ years ago so I expect it's even worse now.

Guys will try and You can't stop it and be mad at your girl because of that. If she doesn't read it or answer You are good. The problem starts when she starts talking with them and agreeing to meet.

Returnofthemack3 · 2021-03-18T20:01:40+00:00

You just have to get used to it. With that said, it's not a good thing nor will it ever be, but finding a girl that's attractive and who doesn't entertain oodles of male attention is next to impossible. Your feelings are valid but there's absolutely nothing you can do but adapt to this reality we face

tetrachromancy · 2021-03-19T04:39:46+00:00

I mean you’re girl is probably a 6 right? Let’s be real, this isn’t some Instagram model.

The point is, all girls, even ugly ones, are being hit up by thirsty simps in the DM’s. Accept that.

Now here’s what you can control.

You need to 100% believe you are the best she can ever do. Even if you think ‘on paper’ that’s not the case. You have to really believe your own bullshit and see yourself as irreplaceable, while she IS replaceable.

This will prevent your insecurity from fucking up the relationship.

It will take time to really sink it in. What also helps? Continuing to max out your SMV even if you have a girlfriend. Keep leveling up while she gets older each day.

Good luck

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TeddyMGTOW · 2021-03-18T18:25:42+00:00

Her behavior is probably the social norm nowadays buts that's neither here or there...

My advise to a young man like yourself is never rely on one pussy or get too "invested" in one gal.

skuttt · 2021-03-19T02:30:37+00:00

Any girl worth having has orbiters. Just be better and keep frame.

WesternDoughnut · 2021-03-18T18:33:22+00:00

I had no idea how much attention girls get until I saw my sister's inbox. Unless she is hanging out with them you are fine

SeasonedRP · 2021-03-18T19:24:56+00:00

If she isn't engaging with them, don't worry about it. Guys approach hot girls.

samsmith67 · 2021-03-18T19:09:22+00:00

Hey OP beware!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9uYj6x7PvRI

Title	Excessive Beta Orbiters
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Upvotes	8
Comments	25
Date	March 18, 2021 4:11 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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