Losing alpha-ness

nastynickdr · 2016-01-25T12:19:28+00:00

Hold your frame. Keep being light and fun around her. Keep gaming her.

But its a sure thing that her attraction for you will lower, she sees you as weak right now. How can a weak man protect her? Remember that men are disposable.

youcantdenythat · 2016-01-25T11:23:57+00:00

Can't you do upper body lifting? Bench press, curls, etc?

nonderivative · 2016-01-25T12:57:07+00:00

How long until you can get out of bed? Nothing productive you can do?

SeekingTheWay · 2016-01-25T11:51:29+00:00

Wheelchair the shit out of the room.

abhisid_93 · 2016-01-25T12:23:40+00:00

It will take one more month for me to go out on my own. As of now I rely on my friends and family to take me out somewhere. Holding frame seems to be hard right now. I am losing muscle fast and with that my sense of self worth is going down too

arcarsenal16 · 2016-01-25T12:49:57+00:00

same thing happened to me, different illness. damage to relationship was irreversible.

all I can suggest is never complain.

theimmortalmortal · 2016-01-25T14:38:31+00:00

You can do curls can't you?

94redstealth · 2016-01-25T15:41:33+00:00

take this time to work out your mind. read some new books, learn a new skill like a language.

just cause you have to have people do stuff for you doesnt mean you have to act beta. You you need someone to get something for you, it is owed to you and they should be thankful for having the opportunity to do so.

Try to set things up so you dont have to rely on people as mush.

plasticslug · 2016-01-25T18:26:53+00:00

People hate to take care of other people, I dont care who you are. Parents will grow to hate their kids, children their parents, grandparents etc when in a care taking position.

Not that they dont love you, its just well... fuck who wants to take care of anybody, especially when most people can not take care of themselves.

I dont blame her from drifting away especially if you have been needy.... I would man the fuck up a bit, try to become more independent and watch her reactions. She may already have 1 foot out the door, its not that she is a bitch, its just a situational issue where she feels she is taking on more than she bargained for.

Heal up, collect your thoughts and possibly move on.

refusewool · 2016-01-25T15:40:50+00:00

Do bicep curls (+ variations), shoulder raises, triceps extensions/pressing if possible. Watch lots of stand up and develop your wit. Read lots of theory and develop your mind. Etc etc.

Title	Losing alpha-ness
Author	abhisid_93
Upvotes	7
Comments	19
Date	January 25, 2016 9:01 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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