GF broke up. I said cool and peace'd. Now she's at my door...

abdada · 2016-03-16T19:19:27+00:00

Just turn her into a plate.

Sleep with her if you want to. See her when you want to. Answer her when you want to.

Archwinger · 2016-03-17T00:00:00+00:00

Fuck-only.

She was with one or more other men 30 seconds after dumping you. It didn't work out. Now she gets what she signed up for. A string of guys who fuck her but never commit.

[deleted] · 2016-03-16T20:32:01+00:00

You just won a major power struggle.

Imagine that you're in a prison cell with a guy, and the breakup was a fight over dominance.

Your IDGAF attitude was a major puch to the nose, congratulations you have yourself a bitch.

ManOfGrapes · 2016-03-16T19:25:47+00:00

It's tough to turn a previous LTR into a plate, since they almost never put aside old feelings. Their end goal will be to take up your time all in the hopes of getting back together. Tread carefully, limit contact and make it clear you aren't interested in restarting a relationship. Usually saying you want to remain friends works.

JimFury · 2016-03-16T20:19:00+00:00

"You and I are not going back together. You said it's over, that switch is flipped. You and I can still have sex, but there is no "we" any time soon"

Just enough of a balance between carrot and dread.

MattyAnon · 2016-03-17T00:45:52+00:00

Shown up in tears = drama = don't go there.

You want drama free FWB.

Rasalom72 · 2016-03-16T19:29:09+00:00

Offer to let her come in and then you can "make her feel better with your cock." If she accepts, go for it.. if she balks at it, tell her to get out/ leave.

TheRealMewt · 2016-03-17T00:36:41+00:00

Shes on your doorstep. If you want to fuck her, fuck her. If she wants something you don't want, tell her to pound sand.

JedYorks · 2016-03-16T20:14:07+00:00

What would trump do? Tell her to get the hell out and don't answer the door. Squirt her with water.

_red_carpet · 2016-03-16T20:33:03+00:00

how long of a time span here? it's going to be hard to plate her if this was fairly recent

BenjiDread · 2016-03-16T23:50:29+00:00

A good "Fuck Off" should suffice.

Sir_Distic · 2016-03-17T00:01:33+00:00

Don't do anything romantic, such as dates etc.

Tell her to come over, escalate, close. Keep it casual. If she pushes for a relationship just ignore it or punish her by withdrawing your time.

lionhearted22 · 2016-03-16T21:05:33+00:00

fuck, that's what I should have said. Instead I let my emotions take a hold of me and got angry. Damn man one second of lost frame can make a big difference.

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-03-17T12:24:40+00:00

Destroy her!

[deleted] · 2016-03-16T22:25:23+00:00

Just let her for woman tell men. "I'm not ready for a relationship" but you want to hangout with her. Then put your dick in her while hanging out. Just don't respond to her all the time, only respond to her at your convenience/needs.

BiggestOfBosses · 2016-03-16T20:43:30+00:00

heh, funny. gf broke up with me today also. around the same time you posted your thread.

Title	GF broke up. I said cool and peace'd. Now she's at my door...
Author	dank_bananna
Upvotes	37
Comments	37
Date	March 16, 2016 7:17 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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