It seems like all the young girls I meet (20-24) are only interested in polyamory....

lostmatt · 2016-04-10T17:01:19+00:00

There is certainly an upward trend of women choosing polyamory.

Is it a product of our culture. Absolutely.

Is there anything you can do about it?

Not really except for choose not to participate.

Continue to work on yourself. Increase your value regardless of your relationship status.

I hate to say it but it's almost a class thing. Lower class women choose polyamory because it benefits them.

Higher class women don't usually choose polyamory because of stronger bond with family, reputation, and stability.

The women you want are out there, just increase your value until you've gained access.

EssexMum · 2016-04-10T16:51:43+00:00

Clearly you're looking in the wrong places! I wouldn't take it personally and would keep looking. Good luck!

Late30sMasculist · 2016-04-10T21:16:10+00:00

How old are you? If you're still in your mid-20s, then hold off on marriage until you're mid-30s or more. Use the time to gain experience. Get close to some women so you can see first hand how they act and how to manage them.

If you spend your time working on your career and developing a stronger personality, you will be able to pull higher quality women as your SMV nears its peak.

If girls had more foresight, they would start families in their 20s when they have the energy and fertility. It really is true that women peak early and men much later.

nastynickdr · 2016-04-10T19:30:47+00:00

right, " polyamory", i prefer to call it whoring around.

What you can do is keep improving youself, be the highest quality man you can be, so when an attractive decent woman worth of a LTR comes around she is attracted to you.

cazzah123 · 2016-04-10T17:35:55+00:00

Just a thought, and it might annoy you, but it could be your fault?

Hear me out.

Do you think these woman you meet who are only interested in polyamory ran in Brad Pitt they would think the same?

Your value isn't high enough so they aren't willing to be only yours.

Increase your value and you'll find more and more than girls will want to be with only you. Increase it more and they'll do crazy stuff to be with you.

Theres girls out their that would laugh in your face about being monogamous.

But I would bet my life that those same woman would step over their own mother, quit their job, abandon their friends and lifestyle at the chance of being Brad Pitts wife.

Fixingmyself84 · 2016-04-10T20:01:10+00:00

The girl who jolted me out of the matrix told me she was poly a year and a half into our ltr. That same age group is full of blue pills who are more than happy to put that pussy on a pedistal and let women do whatever they want.

A poster mentioned lower class women and I think that's right. I have a terrible habit of sticking my dick in crazy artsy girls without 10 dollars in their pockets. You need girls with better value, so keep raising yours.

HumanSockPuppet · 2016-04-10T17:53:39+00:00

Women claim to be polyamourous as a pre-emptive excuse for branch-swinging. Therefore, any woman who says she is polyamourous is telling you that she is a slut, and will insta-dump you at the first sign of a better catch coming along. Keep these girls as plates and nothing more.

And as for your desire to get married - all I can do is try and talk you away from the cliff. If you're dead-set on stepping off the edge, then it's your life to end when you please.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-04-11T17:22:51+00:00

I am one of the guys who wants to end up in hard mode. Wife and kids, etc.

Why?

the good range for marrying

There's a "good range" for marrying?

only interested in polyamory.

Well, in fairness, she's never "yours" it's just "your turn"

Is this just a product of our culture now?

Yep. Completely. And really it sux more for women, I think.

Does this just mean I am not "alpha" enough?

It means you're still at least half-way plugged in. But at least you realize what a shitty deal is on offer.

ThrowingMyslfOutther · 2016-04-10T17:43:31+00:00

That age range is only because that's the range you are targeting. Don't worry! AWALT. EVEN WHEN IN THEIR 40s!

Just nexted someone I was on the wall about, cause I saw her using tinder still, after (her) setting up another date. She was damn lucky I was going out with her. [and that's how all of you need to think. Abundance.] I literally don't have time for that. If she messages me and asks what happened, I'll reply... "if I want to date someone that acts like a twenty year old, you damn well better believe, they are going to be in their 20s!"

letriggeredface · 2016-04-10T17:08:04+00:00

He doesnt know about eastern europe and asia. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Seriously though, your solution is as easy as that.

Title	It seems like all the young girls I meet (20-24) are only interested in polyamory....
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