I took a girl out for drinks last week who is a friend of my friend's girlfriend so we were introduced mutually. My friend says she's not had a boyfriend for a while, and isn't the type to sleep around (less than 5 sexual partners according to friend's girlfriend). The night went really well, lots of IOI's, I held my frame well and spotted (and destroyed) all of her shit-tests. The night ended with me kissing her a lot after a good kino build up. It was a work night so we were only out for a few hours, as she had a 12 hour shift starting at 7am the next day.

My question is, how do I escalate this to sex, either at her place or mine? I feel that if we went on a night out and I just said "wanna come back to mine?" she'll know what I'm after and deflect. Same if I invite her round for dinner. The ideal situation would be if she invited me to her place, but as with her lay count, she isn't this type of girl.

How is best to play this? Any examples?