I want a good man
Men these days are too thirsty
All a man wants is to just do the deed, he’s not interested in me
A man has to be confident and have his shit together
A man has to stand for something
He has to be high value
I want him to want me
6 foot long 6 foot tall 6 inches girth
…etc

Let’s call it together. BULLSHIT

Only one question matters. Is she convinced that you can deliver pleasure to her?

If the answer is no, then it’s no surprise, you are trying to convince her to take a loss. Of course she will say no

The only question that matters is that