For logistical reasons, my SO and I have to sign our wedding papers at City Hall before our actual wedding (I don't feel like explaining why- it's not controversial or interesting, just boring, lol). Because it's just a little ceremony with only the 2 of us, I am not wearing my actual wedding dress. I have two options:

1.) bodycon white dress from Guess. It shows off my butt (his favorite feature) but my concern is it's just a tad too revealing. I have a good body but I don't want to look trashy. It's not too short, just quite tight.

http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/img-thing?.out=jpg&size=l&tid=104543460

2.) Retro- style dress from Trashy Diva (despite the name it's actually not a slutty dress) http://d2tq98mqfjyz2l.cloudfront.net/image_cache/1334605445876665.jpg

I would wear both of them with a pink belt and matching pink shoes that I already own.

He asked to see them both tonight- I already own them so technically I could show them to him, but I'm not sure if that makes it less exciting? He hasn't seen my REAL wedding dress yet, so maybe I should just show him the elopement dress since superstitions don't really apply to elopements.

Male opinions are also welcome!