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[–]MsSadieDunham 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just like the telephone, women like to text more than men. For every 7 text message I send to my husband I get one back and it's usually 'k'.
Communication is different for men and women no matter what the medium.
[–]Cardiscappa1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
For every 7 text message I send to my husband I get one back and it's usually 'k'.
I'm so happy I'm not the only one! I text things that are happening, photos, etc, and nary get a response. He's told me to text him but my hamster starts worrying that I'm pestering or he's not interested with no message back.
[–]MsSadieDunham 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol, that's just men!
[–]radioactivities92 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
go to asktrp if you want advice on texting females.
[–]BuffaloWang[S] 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
So I pose a question to this sub, noting the prevailing info from TRP. You respond by redirecting me to TRP... very helpful. My question is whether RPW view texting as only being useful for logistics. I don't want advice. I asked precisely what I intended.
[–]teaandtalk5 Stars4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Women aren't trying to 'set frame'. So your question isn't really tailored to your crowd. Why would we have advice on how to text women?
[–]Cardiscappa1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Do you use texting exclusively for logistics, or for building attraction, setting frame, ensuring investment, etc.
Seems pretty straightforward. Do the (redpilled)women here use texting just to set dates, or does she use it to flirt, talk about her day and/or build attraction as part of her vetting process.
[–]teaandtalk5 Stars0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The point is that he's asking women for advice about how to text women. If it were a post about women's approach to texting in general, that would be different. It reads like it could be x-posted to TRP, so it's not appropriate here.
[–]BuffaloWang[S] 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The question is about women's approach to texting. Smh. "TRP views texting for X purpose. Is this how (RPW) view texting?" As Cardiscappa notes, pretty straightforward.....
[–]Cardiscappa1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The point is that he's asking women for advice about how to text women.
I don't read that at all in the opening post. I read that he's asking women how they use texting in a relationship, NOT how to text a woman, hence the "Do you ... " instead of "Should I text her x/y/z... "
[–]Kara_El 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When I was dating online, I'd get to know the person via text before meeting, because that's the point of online dating. I'd ask about parents and friends and work and faith, to avoid surprises I couldn't reconcile on a first date and save us both time.
Once I started dating my fiance, it was a little tougher. One, I didn't want to be needy. Two, I didn't want him to be needy. We occasionally went two or three days without texting, because we both had lives. I'd text him a funny story or send a link or picture I thought he might like, we'd discuss it for a bit, and then be silent for two days.
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