What to do when I'm with a SO/fuckbuddy/fwb/etc and we are with a bunch of female friends?

steadymotion · 2014-01-25T23:53:36+00:00

Hopefully they're hot girls. Use soft game on them. Soft game means never really committing to any one of the girls, never really escalating physically. Mostly just verbal and eye contact game. Tease them, be the center of attention, be the leader of the group, etc. Just have fun with them all, make them all like you (but if they refuse to like you, be cool with that too, don't be needy for it). This way you'll get insane pre-selection, your SO will want to fuck your brains out, and you'll have options if you ever want to start spinning more plates.

If they're all fugly.. then why does your SO have all fugly friends? Something's not right about that.

mrust · 2014-01-24T14:19:44+00:00

I'll let others answer your fundamental question, but I will give you some gold advice that I got a long time ago.

If it's your SO, I'd make sure I had phone numbers for her closest friends by the end of the night. Not to game them, but because sometimes you'll get a nuclear shit test and having their number is the only way of keeping communication open. i.e. she fucks up, you walk away and then you don't want to be the one calling her. It's tactical, gives you more options for a soft next.

[deleted] · 2014-01-24T14:44:15+00:00

I don't think the answer is ever to be UNsociable. Talk to her friends the same as anyone else, make them like you and you'll gain points in her eyes too.

vandaalen · 2014-01-24T14:58:43+00:00

What is the problem with people being in larger female groups? I've read that a couple of times here now.

Why not enjoy being the cock of the roost and the center of attention?

I always get a good boost for my ego from that. And it gives you the possibility to test things on different personalities and become more confident in social interactions in a short period of time.

TheRealLandingWood · 2014-01-24T14:38:54+00:00

Op flirt with them but don't escal

Title	What to do when I'm with a SO/fuckbuddy/fwb/etc and we are with a bunch of female friends?
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Date	January 24, 2014 2:03 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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