Is my list of qualities I like in an ideal partner unrealistic/ narcissistic? (List inside)

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-08-31T21:48:54+00:00

This is absolutely basic necessities for a relationship.

GlitteringContact8 · 2020-08-31T21:55:13+00:00

Anyone who tells you that's too much either doesn't want you to be happy or is insecure about his own capacities to give you that. Cue my male "friend" who thought it was appropriate for some asshole on tinder to call me out for having roughly above qualities, and thought it was high time I was told my place. We're not speaking anymore since I found FDS

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2020-08-31T22:04:50+00:00

Sounds like bare minimums to me!

2020-08-31T22:06:16+00:00

Good list.

2020-09-01T04:25:07+00:00

Your standard is totally fine just that 2,9 and 10 can make you vulnerable to love bombing and future faking. Please don't tell men this standard because that'll make you more vulnerable (if men know what you want from the beginning, they'll fake it until they get what they want, tell it only after you're in a strong, committed relationship) and be wary of men who approach you strongly, don't fall in love instantly.

heleninthealps · 2020-08-31T22:09:00+00:00

If I read the list and take away the word "Extremely" (since it makes me imagen a man that doesn't have a life of his own and does every thing literally to the extreme), it sounds like a normal healthy list of a partner. My list looks pretty much the same minus the star gazing, I like it but wouldn't be a deal breaker if he doesn't gaze at them 😅

2020-09-01T16:58:55+00:00

These are normal things!

ChristianGirl93 · 2020-08-31T22:12:51+00:00

5, 9 and 10!! ❤️ are a must

Title	Is my list of qualities I like in an ideal partner unrealistic/ narcissistic? (List inside)
Author	joinedatthehipthro
Upvotes	16
Comments	8
Date	August 31, 2020 2:33 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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